‘Creative Manifesto

On a rare morning that I wake up with more energy and rapidly firing synapses then I’ve had in quite some time, I have to take advantage. Decided to write a manifesto, here it goes:

A & B Creative (or at least the blog) is going to start seeing some changes. The past year has been one of the most challenging, and with adversity I feel that one is more and more driven to live as their authentic self. Being bed-bound for long stretches of that year forces you even more so to be self-reflective. To think about all that you really want and want to do and create.

Just as I’m constantly telling our couples that their wedding is first and foremost their day, well…your life should certainly be your own! Starting your own business is incredible in so many ways, and the most amazing of all of the benefits is certainly creating a business that allows you to do what you love and create the life you want for yourself through that.

So, how will this all look? For weddings, we’re focusing on the ones that initially made us fall in love with this intimate gift we have the privilege of being a part of; those are small, intimate and destination weddings. One of our very first weddings (over four years ago) was an intimate destination wedding where nearly EVERY SINGLE person there cried happy tears at one point during the day! We don’t require tears, but seeing that joy at sharing these moments and the desire to be as present as they all were, man, that’s the good stuff. That’s where we began and where we’ve been many times over and we’re now getting more purposeful about that being our focus.

For styling, we’re expanding more purposefully into interior styling and interior design & planning, specifically for small spaces (something that has long been a passion of mine (see: living in a closet (literally) in high school to maximize the living space of my bedroom) and with which we have a big announcement coming soooon! (For now, here’s a little sneak peek of a corner of our #BittyBerkeleyBungalow)

Just as no person is just one thing and people are constantly evolving,  A & B Creative has never been just one thing; that’s the entire reason why “Creative” had to be part of our business name! In that vein, I’m also going to be sharing little snipits (or links at the least) of my personal passion which has always been performing (and more specifically, acting). More to come on that, perhaps with photos from the archives of middle school through college theater? Yikes.

May this be the beginning of loving what we do that much more and continuing to find humor and inspiration in the dark times and support and love in the times of light.

And, here’s one last sneak peek from our little house warming dinner a little while ago.

Wedding photos: Jay Eads, Our little house sneak peek and housewarming photos : Ashley Kelemen

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Glassybaby, Now in Berkeley!

Last week I did something admittedly unlike me, I actually went out after a long day styling a shoot (can’t wait to share more of that when it’s published) I know, I amazed myself. Since we moved back to Berkeley I have been trying to let my developed, and somewhat snobbish attitude about how great Oakland was, go by learning about all the amazing shops and creatives that have moved to Berkeley in our absence. One of the newest, and really exciting, businesses that has ventured to Berkeley is Glassybaby.

Have you heard of them? They began in Seattle (which my PNW raised heart felt even more connected to) when Lee Rhodes was suffering through a battle with cancer and a handmade glass vessel from her husband (after she gifted him lessons so that he could have a distraction from her struggle) with a tea light in it became a beacon of calm and hope. To support those supporting her and others who were struggling with their health she began hiring glassblowers to make molds of her husband’s first creation to give as gifts.

Today, Glassybaby is an incredibly successful business with various locations in and around Seattle, San Francisco and now Berkeley. I’ll try to avoid too many glassblowing puns, but truly, out of the ashes rose this incredible business, and those roots have not been forgotten. When Lee was going through chemo-therapy she realized how much of a financial burden illnesses can be on families (no one reimburses babysitting, gas, food, lodging, etc.) so to date, Glassybaby has donated nearly 4 million dollars to organizations who support those struggling with finding hope so that they can focus on healing. They also actually pay living wages and benefits to their employees as well. All that to say, this is a company you can feel good about supporting. Here are a few of those said employees now, tell me Flashdance doesn’t immediately come to mind.

Alex and I each picked out a favorite, I picked the first Glassybaby color, “True White” (which is actually more of a pink when lit) and Alex said that he wanted to pick one that “closest matched the blue of my eyes,” which happens to be ” Mountain Lake”  apparently. I’m a lucky lady, indeed. One of the most interesting parts about the votives and glasses is that no two have the exact same hue when they’re lit. Here’s how you test how yours will look at home, in the dark.

Such a lovely evening, really cool studio, and amazing mission-driven company!




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An Evening With Joanne Weir in Honor of Kitchen Gypsy

This was honestly one of the best nights I have had in a really long time, and the most perfect example of why pushing yourself past your comfort level can be such a good thing. I was invited to join some other bloggers for an intimate dinner at Joanne Weir‘s (renowned chef and author (this is her EIGHTEENTH cookbook!) and host of two PBS cooking shows) home along with Oxmoor House publishing and Sunset Magazine.

It was an incredibly clever concept, to really delve deeply into the new cookbook we would come to Joanne’s house and each bring a dish from the book. Sounds so fun, right? Well, I imagine for someone who considers themselves a chef or even a “cook” this opportunity would probably seem like that of a lifetime! For someone who had about three dishes down pat, then went vegan and could only make sides, then basically just started cooking this summer it was completely and utterly intimidating. Naturally, I chose the most colorful dish (gotta try to utilize the skills I do have, thank you God for styling!) that also didn’t have to be cooked, enter Citrus Salad with Mint & Red Onions. Even with those considerations it became a little overwhelming, I needed kumquats and despite having not one, but two Berkeley Bowls (for those not local, they have just about every kind of produce from every part of the world you could imagine) near me, I couldn’t find them. Great, now Joanne’s going to think I don’t respect her recipe. Then when I began actually preparing the dish it turns out that my Grandma’s Publisher’s Clearing House (PCH, for die-hards like her) knives haven’t been sharpened in awhile and are going to produce nothing like the pristine circles of citrus that are perfectly and evenly sliced as you see in the cookbook. After turning the kitchen into a citrus bloodbath (sticky, but my heavens did it smell delicious in there!) I attempted to style my jagged slices into something resembling a salad.

When I arrived at Joanne’s house I tried to sort-of sneak my dish into the fridge so I wouldn’t have to see her at the moment she saw what I brought. It was like watching someone you’ve never met open a really personal gift you’ve just given them. I focused instead on the flowers that I was arranging for the evening, something that I felt was ever-so-slightly more in my breadth. Joanne was incredibly complimentary about the flowers and giving me input as to where to put each of the arrangements. (Isn’t Joanne’s plate collection incredible? …and that light!)

Having broken the ice (and admittedly, asking a friend first) I asked Joanne to try the vinaigrette before I drizzled it all over the salad (and, I feared, ruining it if it wasn’t good). I had never made a sweet vinaigrette before so it was hard to judge its flavor. Joanne was so incredibly generous and even called it “delicious!” She was actually completely amused by how nervous all of us were (turns out I wasn’t the only one debating canceling when my dish wasn’t turning out the way I had hoped) about showing her our versions of her treasured recipes!

That’s actually my favorite thing about Kitchen Gypsy, this is a cookbook (obviously) but it’s also a memoir-in food form. She takes memories and attaches them to recipes, which really, I think I (and so many of us) associate certain times and memories with meals.

My honeymoon is punctuated with memories of dutch cookies, the best green beans I’ve ever had in my life, and lamb (sorry, pre-veggie days) in Aruba. I associate childhood memories of times with my beloved Aunt Candy, who has now passed, with her deviled eggs, garlic bread and homemade blue-cheese dressing. Now I can remember this laughter and conversation-filled night with Oaxacan Chocolate Milkshakes (which I have truly not stopped thinking about since), her Mom’s Tomato Sandwiches which ask for homemade bread which I have admittedly not made to go along with- but picked up someone else’s homemade bread and made many times already since this night!

I don’t want to give away too much about the book, but it’s honestly beautiful and filled with exactly what I care about–ephemera, memories, hilarious stories (like finding a fly in a bottle of wine which turned into a life-changing trip to France for the first time) and family traditions.

Thank you so much Joanne for being so welcoming and supportive and for sharing so many wonderful stories and so much delicious food to pair with it! All neurosis aside, my salad ended up looking pretty beautiful despite my knife issues, and most importantly, it was delicious!


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Ethereal Oregon Boudoir Featured on Once Wed

I can honestly say that I feel that this is some of my best work (brought out by the incredible women I collaborated with, of course) and some of the very hardest to have to wait months to share with everyone! The wait is over, and you can see more on Once Wed. Without further ado, Oneanta Gorge Boudoir:

I cannot say enough good things about how many incredible people I get to work with. It is truly a pleasure. Ashley Kelemen is such a talented photographer and also one of my favorite people. Beth Level Artistry created this incredible glowing goddess that is Lana Nyman. I could happily work with them every day.

Oregon is one of those incredible states where you really can travel to every kind of environment within its state lines. However, when I first came to Oneonta Gorge it was like nothing I have ever seen. The gorge is akin to what you would imagine finding in Hawaii or Costa Rica, but instead of palm trees the ridge is dotted with pines.

Your senses come alive as you walk through the gorge; everything gets quieter and cooler, the sun makes the water sparkle and the air is the freshest you can imagine. I couldn’t possibly think of a better location for something as intimate and special as a boudoir session.

I chose simple and natural feeling materials and colors that would not detract from the awe-inspiring setting.

Looking through Ashley’s beautiful images I’m immediately transported back to this incredible place where I can nearly hear the echoes of the falls and feel the early morning sun start to warm my skin.

See Once Wed for more of this feature!

Photography: Ashley Kelemen | Creative Direction + Styling: A & B Creative | Hair & Makeup: Beth Level Artistry | Model: Lana Moon Nyman | Film: Indie Film Lab

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Sunrise Boudoir Session

One of the hardest parts of my job is having to wait (with bated breath) to share images from projects that I have worked on. Today the wait is over for one of my shoots because one of my favorite blogs, Once Wed, is sharing this Sunrise Boudoir session!

The concept of a sunrise boudoir session on your wedding day is incredibly apt and a beautiful way to document your last moments before becoming a bride. It also offers you a way to stay present in these special moments of solitude before the wedding day begins. Rising early on your wedding day to capture these moments ensures that you will take the time out of a day of busyness to think about the weight of what this day will bring and offer quiet moments of reflection.

I had the pleasure of teaming up with one of my very favorite people (in general, but for work too) Beth Level who highlighted all of Marlie’s beauty for a hair and make-up look that is luminous and somehow comes across as effortless.

This was my first time working with Kimberly Seabury and as you can see, it turned out quite well. I’m already having to anticipate waiting a painfully long time to share the latest project we worked on together just last weekend.

I had been a fan of Gossamer Vintage for some time and was so happy to get to use three different gorgeous pieces of hers for this shoot.

I basically want everything in her shop (and probably closet). If I had no ego/insecurities/shortage of crinoline petticoat skirts I would constantly look like I just walked off the set of Dirty Dancing. So many vintage party dresses to lust after in her shop! Thank you for a wonderful team and to Once Wed for sharing this shoot, hop on over to their blog to see more.

Vintage pieces: Gossamer Vintage | Photography: Kimberly Seabury | H&MU: Beth Level | Model: Marlie York | Creative Direction and Styling: Rebekah Carey of A & B Creative


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Organic Bali Destination Wedding

I am so excited that Style Me Pretty is sharing this gorgeous Bali wedding today so that I can finally share these beautiful images from Em the Gem and Ashley Kelemen!

Cathy and King had a long, long-dinstance relationship all the way up until their big day. I worked with the couple to be true to that with the phrase we came up with of  ”Worth the Wait.” I contacted Jenna Rainy of Monvoir to create this gorgeous piece for the ceremony altar and I love how it turned out.

I love these fan favors in muslin bags!

We wanted to create a simple and organic reception design that allowed the beauty of Bali from outside the floor-to-ceiling windows really shine.

Cathy and King were such a sweet and beautiful couple and we are so happy that we got to be a part of their special day! To say the experience was one we’ll never forget would be an understatement.  Also, baby monkeys:

Photography: Em The Gem | Design & Styling: A & B Creative |Wedding Gown: Angela Marcuccio Bridal Couture | Cake: C For Cupcakes | Bride’s Shoes: Badgley Mischka | Ceremony Venue, Reception Venue: Kayumanis Nusa Dua | Floral: Chantelle Madison | Hair + Makeup: Lona Bali Make Up Artist | Photography – Assistance: Ashley Kelemen | Wedding Stationary: Eza Nasir

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Intimate Bridal Shower

I’m delighted to share images from this beautiful (if that’s not too immodest to say) bridal shower I threw for Addison of Twiggs that is being shared by 100 Layer Cake today!

I am very fortunate to be a part of a small group of like-minded wedding creatives based in the Bay Area and recently one of our own (Addison Searles of Twiggs) got engaged (in France!) As soon as I knew she had been engaged I was excited to celebrate her.

Addison has such great style and I wanted to reflect that in the classic invites and paper products (via Wedding Paper Divas), minimal design and autumnal palette. Aubriana of The Bloomery Co made all of these invitations more personal with her beautiful calligraphy and floral inspired quotes.

With (nearly) all the ladies of our group gathered in my Berkeley studio we showered Addison and ate delicious food and, obviously, talked about their future wedding!

Naturally, a shower for one half of Twiggs wouldn’t be complete without stunning florals!

This was such a great afternoon to just be able to chat and relax and for everyone to get to catch up after the busy summer. It is so special that we all have these beautiful images by Jessica to remember this moment in time.

Photographer: Jessica Burke / Styling & Design: A & B Creative / Florals: Twigss Floral Studio / Paper Products: Wedding Paper Divas / Calligraphy: The Bloomery Co.

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Classic San Francisco Engagement Session

I love this engagement session so much. Em The Gem just captured all of the love of this gorgeous couple, our beautiful state (and why I moved to the Bay Area over six years ago), perfectly. Hop on over to Style Me Pretty to see the whole feature, below are some of my favorites!

Kristarae and Felix were having a San Francisco City Hall wedding, so an engagement session was the perfect way to be able to capture their invitation suite (by Wedding Paper Divas with custom calligraphy by Aubriana at The Bloomery Co), local San Francisco scenery and beautiful moments together shortly before they will be husband and wife.

I said this in the feature, but as I got the images back (and even in person as I was watching K & F), I kept thinking how this is the San Francisco that Alfred Hitchcock was so enamored with and had to include in his films.

How can you not feel that San Francisco is just completely enchanting when you see images like these? It doesn’t hurt that the gown I found for Kristarae fit her as though it was custom made for her and that she shines so beautifully in it!

Photography: Em the Gem, Invitations: Wedding Paper Divas, Calligraphy: The Bloomery Co


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Ladies Who Brunch Event With Wedding Paper Divas

This was such a great day, and I’m so appreciative of Style Me Pretty for sharing it! A little bit ago I got to design and style another fun event for Wedding Paper Divas. This one’s theme was a DIY event we titled, “Ladies Who Brunch.”

We gathered a great group of (mostly) Oakland creatives to create fun DIYs with the WPD invites and enjoyed yummy food and drinks.

The collaborators for the event were just incredible, I feel so fortunate to get to work with such great vendors! (See all of their handles below)

I wish I could have brought the Frances Lane glasses home with me. I need no excuses for adding to my vintage glass collection (hoard).

Sarah Seven opened her Oakland atelier (which I had the pleasure of just having given a fresh revamp design to) for the event. Here we are, and her gorgeous collection below.

One of my favorite elements of the design was the custom backdrop that Tomfoolery created with Wedding Paper Divas envelopes…and a funny photo from their booth with my favorite “Smile, there’s gin” signs by Bright Room Studio!

The florals from Loop were perfect. The look for the event was pretty minimal with a really fresh palette of black, gold and green.

I’m still dreaming of the delicious gin cocktails we made from Alameda’s own St. George Spirits.

Another really fun element of the event was the lash bar that Pricilla Francine hosted! (And shout out for my hair and make-up! It was amazing to actually feel like myself, albiet and more polished version, at an event instead of the sleep deprived mess I usually feel like I look like at an event!)

Jessica Burke captured the event perfectly! I love how great she is at capturing details so beautifully as well as candid moments of the attendees. At the end of our fun morning each one of our guests got to leave with a pretty floral arrangement and a little box of goodies to go with their handmade DIYs. I can’t wait for the next event!

Styling & Event Design: Rebekah Carey, A & B Creative | Photography: Jessica Burke |Paper Products: Wedding Paper Divas | Floral Design: Loop Flowers | Calligraphy: Brightroom Studio | Lash Bar:Priscilla Francine Makeup |Liquor: St. George Spirits | Photo Booth: Tomfoolery |Venue: Sarah Seven Oakland Atelier | Vintage Tumblers: Frances Lane

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Blogshop Portland, 2014

I’m still catching up from pre-surgery work and this was a fun project I’m excited to finally share! I was asked by Blogshop to come back and do the decor for their Portland Blogshop (see what I made for the first one I collaborated with in 2012 here!) late this summer. I love that when I collaborate with Blogshop I know I can do some really fun bright colors and modern approaches to design (don’t get me wrong, I love neutrals and “organic” as much as the next girl, but POP is pretty fun too!) and I love what we created.

As soon as I knew we would be doing the floral aspects too I reached out to Miss Floral guru herself Sarah of The Green Dandelion. Here we are morning-of, installing! We may have been just a little exhausted from being up the night before wrapping everything up.

Sarah created gorgeous centerpieces in wood bowls and together we created a pretty hanging floral backdrop.

I also made a fern wall photobooth for the attendees. Catch Bri’s write-up of the class on Design Love Fest!

Photos by Angela Kohler & Bri Emery.

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